Mu buzima buzanzwe, hari ibintu umusore agenderaho iyo agiye kurambagiza umukobwa ashaka ko yamubera mutima w’urugo, Icyakora bishobora gutandukana n’iby’undi hakurikijwe ibyo buri wese akunda.
Gusa hari ibyo benshi bahuriraho kandi by’ingenzi biranga umukobwa ushobora kuvamo mutima w’urugo nk’uko bakunze kubivuga.
Reka turebera hamwe bimwe mu biranga umukobwa mwiza:
1.Umukobwa arangwa n’ubwiza karemano
Ni kenshi usanga igitsinagore bibanda kubintu byo kwisiga mu rwego rwo kongera ubwiza bwabo ku mubiri. Nyamara burya abagabo benshi usanga bakururwa cyane n’umukobwa wifitiye ubwiza karemano, kuko aba azi ko ubwo bwiza azabuhorana iteka. Si byiza cyane rero kwishyiraho ibintu birenze ku isura yawe kuko abakobwa ni beza ku kigero gikurura abagabo kabone n’ubwo baba batisize ibyo bintu.
2.Umukobwa ushikama kuwo ari we
Burya umukobwa utajahagurika ngo yerekane impinduka kuri we za hato na hato, yishimirwa n’abasore cyane kuko imico agaragaza muri icyo gihe bibaha icyizereko batazigera bacogora kuyigaragaza. Si byiza rero ngo niba uri umukobwa usamarire akaje kose ngo wumve ko ugomba kwitwara nka runaka kuko imyitwarire y’abantu iratandukanye cyane, wazabura ibyo ufata n’ibyo ureka ugahinduka injajwa.
- Ntukabe nyambere igihe cyose guhamagara umuhungu
Kuri iyi ngingo twababwira ko atari bibi rwose guhamagara umuhungu, ariko wibigira akamenyero ngo uhore umuhamagara kandi ubona we ataguhamagara. Burya akenshi iyo ubona umusore atakwandikira cyangwa se ngo aguhamagare, ashobora kuba atakwiyumvamo cyangwa haryi ibyo akigenzura.
- Umukobwa usabana n’inshuti
Iyo umukobwa azi gusabana n’inshuti ariko akirinda gusamara, bituma akenshi akundwa n’abasore ku buryo bumva bifuje kumugira umugore, Baba bazi ko azabasha kubakirira abashyitsi neza, bagafata inshuti zabo neza ntibabace ku muryango ahubwo urugo rwabo rukibera nyabagendwa.
- Umukobwa utagira ishyari
Umukobwa ugira ishyari akenshi usanga arangwa no kugira umushiha kandi no kubana n’abandi biramugora cyane kuko aba yumva abafitiye ishyari. Umukobwa utagira iyi ngeso arakundwa cyane kuko abasore bumvako iyo umukobwa nta shyari agira aba anyurwa n’ibyo afite. Bigatuma rero bumvako igihe bazaba bari kumwe bazaba batuje bakanyurwa n’ibyo batunze.
Jessica Umutesi
