A child is the capital of parents if they raises him well, just as a mother becomes happy when her child is making progress in a certain way. Just make sure that it comes from the education you give him.
Train your child to have good manners, so that he knows how to behave , no one he betrays , no he cheats, no one he lies , no one he insults, no one he harms …..
Characteristics of a Child with good behaviors
He is the best in his family when he is kind to his neighbors, takes care of those who wave his hands, laughs when he sees those in trouble, and is diligent.
When you have a good character, you don’t enjoy other people’s misfortunes, but you suffer from them. That’s why if you go bankrupt and see that nothing has happened to others, if you have an accident and see no one is sad, make sure that there is something you have not corrected.
Train your child to reject contempt and train him to be cautious, know that he has you tomorrow, maybe you won’t be with him, know for sure that he will build his house, know that today you are rich but tomorrow you will be poor, you have a job that you can leave, the farm is not movable, you will run away and cut off your doubts. He takes good care of you.
Make sure that the person you give , tomorrow will also give you when your are in critical situation, make sure that your humble and train your child to be humble as well.
In history, we find in the book called :L’Enfant e Palme” title 167, which tells us the story of the child who killed the president of the United States in 1901.
This book, tells us the story of a child that was rejected by his father when he was still kid and his mother divorced , then the child grew up alone in Loneliness as well as absence of attention, he goes 10 years without seeing someone smile at him .
So when he saw through others ,he was sad and he saw those who smiled and was jealous of them. he grew sad because he was not loved, they locked him up .
After Killing the President ,they asked him why he did that horrible thing and he replied that he saw how the President was loved and appreciated by every one , then he thought how no one ever loved or appreciate him , it hurts him and he feels that he doesn’t need to live any more.
When a person grow up unloved and doesn’t love, When a person grows up not being given permission to give, when he or she grow up without help t like to despise, when a person is treated cruelly, it’s difficult for him to survive. The consequences of not loving your loved ones will make them a problem in the world.
If a mother loves her child, it will remove cruelty and displeasure to others. That’s why you should take care of yours, so that they will take care of themselves.
Claude HATEGEKIMANA
Rwandatrbune.com
